The Parent Coach : A Column For Proactive Parents
If you’re a parent, have the following questions ever crossed your mind?
-What are some good ways
to connect with my elusive teen?
-How can I help my competitive kids control their rivalry?
-Can I prepare my young child for the social hurdles down the road?
These and many other questions cross my mind everyday, sometimes when I’m with my own sons, and often times when I’m guiding other parents and their children in my child psychology practice. My name is Dr. Steven Richfield. Most of my professional time is devoted to helping children develop the social and emotional skills to smooth out the bumps in their lives. I’ve been working in the mental health field since 1980 and received my Doctorate in Clinical Psychology from Hahnemann University (Philadelphia) in 1986. I maintain a full-time private practice in the Philadelphia suburbs.
The purpose of this column is to offer practical coaching advice to parents on a range of issues that confront us all every day. I welcome readers to e-mail me with questions or comments. My intention is to offer more than just answers to questions, though. By referring to the Parent Coach approach, I outline goal-oriented, preventive steps that parents can take to help their children mature. Parent Coaching helps you raise the social and emotional competencies of your children so that they can be better prepared for the challenges ahead.
Please feel free to print any of the columns below, distribute them to friends, colleagues, teachers or other professionals. Many people have also asked permission to include the articles in school newsletters, workshops and resource guides. Please encourage those you know to look into Parent Coaching Cards and my book, The Parent Coach: A New Approach To Parenting In Today’s Society. Feel free to e-mail me with your questions, comments, requests, and ideas about passing the word around.
Dr. Steven Richfield
February,2010
WHEN THE COACH NEEDS JUST AS MUCH COACHING
CLASSROOM COACHING: DEVELOPING CONSTRUCTIVE INTERNAL LANGUAGE
CLASSROOM COACHING: BRINGING SKILLS ON-LINE
COACHING THE RULES OF THE ROAD
COACHING THE SCHOOL AGED "IMPULSIVE DRIVER"
REMOVING THE BARRIERS BETWEEN GENERATIONS
DEALING WITH THE MIDDLE SCHOOL YEARS
DEVELOPING EMOTIONAL RESILIENCE
HELPING YOUR CHILD BECOME BULLY WISE
MAKE CAMP AN ENJOYABLE EXPERIENCE
HELPING YOUR CHILD FIT IN SOCIALLY
DEALING WITH TEEN’S DESIRE FOR FREEDOM
UNDERSTANDING NEGATIVE INFLUENCES
DON’T LET YOUR CHILD TURN INTO A BULLY
DEALING WITH YOUR CHILDREN’S ISSUES
COACHING CALMNESS IN THE ANXIOUS CHILD
TAMING THE HORRORS OF HOMEWORK
HELPING CHILDREN COPE WITH TERRORISM
HOW HOME LIFE CAN BREED BULLYING
USING GOOD JUDGMENT AMONG PEERS
COACHING THE CONTROLLING CHILD
COACHING THE CHILD WHO FEELS LIKE A VICTIM
STRATEGIES TO BOLSTER SELF ESTEEM
MATCHING YOUR COACHING APPROACH TO YOUR CHILD
PARENT COP VS. PARENT COACH: REPAIRING THE TEAR IN PARENTING STYLES
TAMING THE STRUGGLE BETWEEN FATHER AND SON (OR DAUGHTER)
TIPS FOR PARENTING PRE-SCHOOLERS
COACHING SOCIAL MATURITY IN MIDDLE SCHOOL
COACHING ADVICE FOR DIVORCING PARENTS
COACHING TIPS FOR CHILDREN WITH LD AND ADHD
COACHING INDEPENDENCE TO THE OVERLY DEPENDENT CHILD
HELP FOR THE PERFECTIONISTIC CHILD
PREPARING CHILDREN EMOTIONALLY IN A SCARY WORLD
RAISING THE SINGLE-PARENTED CHILD
UNDERSTANDING AND HELPING THE DISTRESSED TEEN
GUIDANCE FOR THE SIBLINGS OF DIFFICULT CHILDREN
RESPONDING TO THE CONCERNS OF THE ADOPTED CHILD
TIPS FOR COACHING KIDS WITH ASPERGERS SYNDROME
PARENT COACHING SPECIAL NEEDS CHILDRERN
COACHING PEER ATTUNEMENT TO THE CHILD WHO DOESN'T FIT IN
REMOVING THE THORNS FROM THE TORN-IN-THE-SIDE STUDENT
WHEN TO SAY "YES" (WHEN YOU REALLY WANT TO SAY "NO)
COACHING VIDEO GAMES SELF-CONTROL SKILLS TO CHILDREN
THE PARENT COACH: COACHING TOLERANCE AMONG SIBLINGS
COACHING ACCEPTANCE OF ADHD AND LEARNING DISABILITIES
REMOVING THE EMOTIONAL BARRIERS TO LEARNING
COACHING THE OVERSENSITIVE CHILD
COACHING THE MENTAL GAME DURING SPORTS
COACHING SPORTS READINESS SKILLS
SMOOTHING OUT TEENAGE SLEEP TROUBLES
COACHING COURAGE WITHIN THE FEARFUL CHILD
COACHING COMPLIANCE WITH CHRONIC MEDICAL RESTRICTIONS
HELPING CHILDREN LEARN FROM EXTENDED FAMILY CONFLICT
COACHING THE UNDERACHIEVING HIGH SCHOOLER
DON'T STEP INTO THE SHOES OF THE PUSHY SPORTS PARENT
LIBERATING CHILDREN FROM A PATTERN OF LIES
SPORTS COACHING THE CHILD WITH ADHD
"THE WORLD DOES NOT REVOLVE AROUND YOU" - COACHING EMPATHY TO THE SELF-CENTERED CHILD
RELATIONSHIP REPAIR WITH THE CHRONICALLY DISRESPECTFUL CHILD
COACHING THE SPORTS PHOBIC CHILD
COACHING KIDS WHO TAKE FANTASY TOO FAR
TOP DOGS AND UNDERDOGS: SOFTENING THE STING OF RELATIONAL AGGRESSION AMONG BOYS
BLEND BUT DON'T BEND: COACHING LEADERSHIP SKILLS
COACHING CHILDREN WHOSE PARENTS FACE SERIOUS MEDICALL ILLNESS
COACHING RESTRAINT TO DRILL SARGENT DADS
SOUNDING THE ALARM ABOUT OVER-SCHEDULED CHILDREN
THE PITFALLS OF PERMISSIVE PARENTING
COMFORTING THE SPIRITS OF THE DEPRESSED CHILD
HELPING CHILDREN OVERCOME SHYNESS
COACHING THE CONFUSED COLLEGE STUDENT
HELP YOUR ADHD CHILD BECOME BULLY-RESISTANT
HELPING OLDER CHILDREN CONQUER SEPERATION PROBLEMS
COACHING BALANCE TO CHILDREN WITH SPECIAL TALENTS
COACHING FREEDOM FROM EARLY CHILDHOOD SEPERATION ANXIETY
LETTING GO ALLOWS CHILDREN TO GROW
A DOG CAN BE A PARENT'S BEST FRIEND
COACHING ORGANIZATIONAL SKILLS TO ADHD CHILDREN
COACHING CONTROL TO THE REACTIVE PARENT
COACHING STRENGTHS IN CHILDREN WITH LEARNING DISABILITIES
ANGER MANAGEMENT IN YOUNG CHILDREN
HELPING CHILDREN CONTEND WITH THE INTERNET AGE
COACHING THE OVERLY COMPETITIVE CHILD
COACHING THE JUDGEMENTAL CHILD
COLLEGE-READINESS TO YOUR HIGH SCHOOL SENIOR
COACHING THE INATTENTIVE CHILD
COACHING PEACE TO BATTLING BROTHERS
COACHING SOCIAL RESPONSIBILITY TO TECHNO-SAVVY TEENS
IMPROVING IMPULSE CONTROL WITHIN YOUNG CHILDREN
IMPROVING YOUR TEEN'S INDEPENDENT THINKING SKILLS
COACHING PEOPLE SKILLS FOR LIFE
COACHING MONEY MATTERS TO CHILDREN
COACHING THE CHILD WHO STRUGGLES WITH SOCIAL AWKWARDNES
PREPARING THE ASPERGERS YOUNG ADULT FOR THE SOCIAL CHALLENGES OF COLLEGE
SOCIAL DEPTH IN AN AGE OF TEXT MESSAGING
EMERGE FROM THE SIBLING SHADOW CAST UPON PARENTHOOD
DON'T BE TRAPPED BY PERSONAL-EXPECTATION BASED PARENTING
COACHING THE YOUNG ADULT WITH CHALLENGES
COACHING GROUP MEMBERSHIP SKILLS
COACHING SUCCESSFUL ADJUSTMENT TO COLLEGE LIFE
(February 2010) New Articles!
Coaching Assertiveness To The Overly Passive Child
Coaching The Emotionally Immature Middle Schooler
Coaching Caution To The Risk-Taking Teen
Coaching Forgiveness To The Grudge-Holding Child
Coaching Social Skills To The Introverted Teen
Coaching The Materialistic Child
Coaching Emotional Literacy To Children
Coaching Communication Skills To Children With Processing Problems
Coaching ADHD College Students To Coach Themselves
Coaching The Argumentative Child
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