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The Parent Coach : A Column For Proactive Parents


If you’re a parent, have the following questions ever crossed your mind?

-What are some good ways to connect with my elusive teen?
-How can I help my competitive kids control their rivalry?
-Can I prepare my young child for the social hurdles down the road?

These and many other questions cross my mind everyday, sometimes when I’m with my own sons, and often times when I’m guiding other parents and their children in my child psychology practice. My name is Dr. Steven Richfield. Most of my professional time is devoted to helping children develop the social and emotional skills to smooth out the bumps in their lives. I’ve been working in the mental health field since 1980 and received my Doctorate in Clinical Psychology from Hahnemann University (Philadelphia) in 1986. I maintain a full-time private practice in the Philadelphia suburbs.

The purpose of this column is to offer practical coaching advice to parents on a range of issues that confront us all every day. I welcome readers to e-mail me with questions or comments. My intention is to offer more than just answers to questions, though. By referring to the Parent Coach approach, I outline goal-oriented, preventive steps that parents can take to help their children mature. Parent Coaching helps you raise the social and emotional competencies of your children so that they can be better prepared for the challenges ahead.

Please feel free to print any of the columns below, distribute them to friends, colleagues, teachers or other professionals. Many people have also asked permission to include the articles in school newsletters, workshops and resource guides. Please encourage those you know to look into Parent Coaching Cards and my book, The Parent Coach: A New Approach To Parenting In Today’s Society. Feel free to e-mail me with your questions, comments, requests, and ideas about passing the word around.

Dr. Steven Richfield
February,2010

WHAT IS A PARENT COACH?

WHY IS COACHING IMPORTANT?

WHEN THE COACH NEEDS JUST AS MUCH COACHING

TO COACH OR NOT TO COACH

CLASSROOM COACHING: DEVELOPING CONSTRUCTIVE INTERNAL LANGUAGE

CLASSROOM COACHING: BRINGING SKILLS ON-LINE

COACHING THE RULES OF THE ROAD

COACHING THE SCHOOL AGED "IMPULSIVE DRIVER"

REMOVING THE BARRIERS BETWEEN GENERATIONS

GETTING BIG HAS BENEFITS

DEALING WITH THE MIDDLE SCHOOL YEARS

DEVELOPING EMOTIONAL RESILIENCE

HELPING YOUR CHILD BECOME BULLY WISE

PROVIDING SUMMER STRUCTURE

MAKE CAMP AN ENJOYABLE EXPERIENCE

HAPPIER FAMILY VACATIONS

HELPING YOUR CHILD FIT IN SOCIALLY

DEALING WITH TEEN’S DESIRE FOR FREEDOM

UNDERSTANDING NEGATIVE INFLUENCES

HELPING THE IMPULSIVE CHILD

COACHING SELF-MOTIVATION

DISCUSSING AWKWARD SUBJECTS

COACHING SPORTSMANSHIP

DON’T LET YOUR CHILD TURN INTO A BULLY

DEVELOPING A TRUSTED DIALOGUE

DEALING WITH YOUR CHILDREN’S ISSUES

MANAGING SUMMERTIME MOODINESS

COACHING CALMNESS IN THE ANXIOUS CHILD

TAMING THE HORRORS OF HOMEWORK

HELPING CHILDREN COPE WITH TERRORISM

COACHING CONVERSATION SKILLS

HOW HOME LIFE CAN BREED BULLYING

USING GOOD JUDGMENT AMONG PEERS

COACHING THE CONTROLLING CHILD

COACHING THE CHILD WHO FEELS LIKE A VICTIM

WHEN FRIEND BECOMES FOE

STRATEGIES TO BOLSTER SELF ESTEEM

MATCHING YOUR COACHING APPROACH TO YOUR CHILD

PARENT COP VS. PARENT COACH: REPAIRING THE TEAR IN PARENTING STYLES

TAMING THE STRUGGLE BETWEEN FATHER AND SON (OR DAUGHTER)

TIPS FOR PARENTING PRE-SCHOOLERS

COACHING SOCIAL MATURITY IN MIDDLE SCHOOL

COACHING ADVICE FOR DIVORCING PARENTS

COACHING TIPS FOR CHILDREN WITH LD AND ADHD

COACHING INDEPENDENCE TO THE OVERLY DEPENDENT CHILD

HELP FOR THE PERFECTIONISTIC CHILD

PREPARING CHILDREN EMOTIONALLY IN A SCARY WORLD

RAISING THE SINGLE-PARENTED CHILD

UNDERSTANDING AND HELPING THE DISTRESSED TEEN

GUIDANCE FOR THE SIBLINGS OF DIFFICULT CHILDREN

RESPONDING TO THE CONCERNS OF THE ADOPTED CHILD

TIPS FOR COACHING KIDS WITH ASPERGERS SYNDROME

PARENT COACHING SPECIAL NEEDS CHILDRERN

COACHING PEER ATTUNEMENT TO THE CHILD WHO DOESN'T FIT IN

REMOVING THE THORNS FROM THE TORN-IN-THE-SIDE STUDENT

WHEN TO SAY "YES" (WHEN YOU REALLY WANT TO SAY "NO)

COACHING VIDEO GAMES SELF-CONTROL SKILLS TO CHILDREN

THE PARENT COACH: COACHING TOLERANCE AMONG SIBLINGS

COACHING ACCEPTANCE OF ADHD AND LEARNING DISABILITIES

REMOVING THE EMOTIONAL BARRIERS TO LEARNING

COACHING THE OVERSENSITIVE CHILD

COACHING THE MENTAL GAME DURING SPORTS

COACHING SPORTS READINESS SKILLS

SMOOTHING OUT TEENAGE SLEEP TROUBLES

COACHING COURAGE WITHIN THE FEARFUL CHILD

COACHING COMPLIANCE WITH CHRONIC MEDICAL RESTRICTIONS

HELPING CHILDREN LEARN FROM EXTENDED FAMILY CONFLICT

COACHING THE UNDERACHIEVING HIGH SCHOOLER

DON'T STEP INTO THE SHOES OF THE PUSHY SPORTS PARENT

LIBERATING CHILDREN FROM A PATTERN OF LIES

SPORTS COACHING THE CHILD WITH ADHD

"THE WORLD DOES NOT REVOLVE AROUND YOU" - COACHING EMPATHY TO THE SELF-CENTERED CHILD

RELATIONSHIP REPAIR WITH THE CHRONICALLY DISRESPECTFUL CHILD

COACHING THE SPORTS PHOBIC CHILD

COACHING KIDS WHO TAKE FANTASY TOO FAR

TOP DOGS AND UNDERDOGS: SOFTENING THE STING OF RELATIONAL AGGRESSION AMONG BOYS

BLEND BUT DON'T BEND: COACHING LEADERSHIP SKILLS

COACHING CHILDREN WHOSE PARENTS FACE SERIOUS MEDICALL ILLNESS

COACHING RESTRAINT TO DRILL SARGENT DADS

SOUNDING THE ALARM ABOUT OVER-SCHEDULED CHILDREN

THE PITFALLS OF PERMISSIVE PARENTING

COMFORTING THE SPIRITS OF THE DEPRESSED CHILD

HELPING CHILDREN OVERCOME SHYNESS

COACHING THE CONFUSED COLLEGE STUDENT

HELP YOUR ADHD CHILD BECOME BULLY-RESISTANT

HELPING OLDER CHILDREN CONQUER SEPERATION PROBLEMS

COACHING BALANCE TO CHILDREN WITH SPECIAL TALENTS

COACHING FREEDOM FROM EARLY CHILDHOOD SEPERATION ANXIETY

LETTING GO ALLOWS CHILDREN TO GROW

A DOG CAN BE A PARENT'S BEST FRIEND

COACHING ORGANIZATIONAL SKILLS TO ADHD CHILDREN

COACHING CONTROL TO THE REACTIVE PARENT

COACHING STRENGTHS IN CHILDREN WITH LEARNING DISABILITIES

ANGER MANAGEMENT IN YOUNG CHILDREN

HELPING CHILDREN CONTEND WITH THE INTERNET AGE

COACHING THE OVERLY COMPETITIVE CHILD

COACHING THE JUDGEMENTAL CHILD

COLLEGE-READINESS TO YOUR HIGH SCHOOL SENIOR

COACHING THE INATTENTIVE CHILD

COACHING PEACE TO BATTLING BROTHERS

COACHING SOCIAL RESPONSIBILITY TO TECHNO-SAVVY TEENS

IMPROVING IMPULSE CONTROL WITHIN YOUNG CHILDREN

IMPROVING YOUR TEEN'S INDEPENDENT THINKING SKILLS

COACHING PEOPLE SKILLS FOR LIFE

COACHING MONEY MATTERS TO CHILDREN

COACHING THE CHILD WHO STRUGGLES WITH SOCIAL AWKWARDNES

RESTRAINING THE JUDGE WITHIN

PREPARING THE ASPERGERS YOUNG ADULT FOR THE SOCIAL CHALLENGES OF COLLEGE

SOCIAL DEPTH IN AN AGE OF TEXT MESSAGING

EMERGE FROM THE SIBLING SHADOW CAST UPON PARENTHOOD

DON'T BE TRAPPED BY PERSONAL-EXPECTATION BASED PARENTING

FROM TARGET TO SELF-ADVOCATE

COACHING THE YOUNG ADULT WITH CHALLENGES

COACHING GROUP MEMBERSHIP SKILLS

COACHING SUCCESSFUL ADJUSTMENT TO COLLEGE LIFE

(February 2010) New Articles!

Coaching Assertiveness To The Overly Passive Child

Anger Management For Parents

Coaching The Emotionally Immature Middle Schooler

Coaching Caution To The Risk-Taking Teen

Coaching Forgiveness To The Grudge-Holding Child

Coaching Social Skills To The Introverted Teen

Coaching The Materialistic Child

Coaching Emotional Literacy To Children

Coaching Communication Skills To Children With Processing Problems

Coaching ADHD College Students To Coach Themselves

Coaching The Argumentative Child


 

 

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